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My Five Star Book Review of Lisa A. Romano's Memoir "The Road Back to Me," on Amazon.com.

Thank you yet again, Lisa A. Romano.  You really came through for yourself!  And in doing so, you really came through for me and so many of us, via sharing your gifts, guidance, learning, and journey.

Grateful you are such a generous Spirit, in Form.  I see you as the Beautiful Angel you are, daring this tough mission on the Earth Plane, to come through the hidden challenges with flying colors, sharing such raw open truth.

Now, to my fellow future readers, and allies on the road back to full true selfhood:  Lisa has a lot to share.  Her book "The Road Back To Me," is delightfully easy reading.  In fact it feels like attending a cozy slumber party in your pajamas, with an old friend.

I am Lisa's age peer, and an adopted daughter of 4 lineages +, nature and nurture, of Narcissistic Borderline Personality Disorder, BiPolar Disorder, Depression, Addiction, and I suspect, feel and know: sexually predatory abuse to my Birth Mother, in the home, where I was programmed in the womb, for this life.

While I have written two books in two "Write Your Book in a Weekend," accelerated workshops, in recent years, reading Lisa's book helps me see the pitfalls, I have faced, being raised to have no self, no healthy self, and to see, feel, hear, and perceive other people's needs as somehow more valid than, or winning out over my own.  In fact, ironically, Lisa's book helped me see more clearly the whole all too human pattern, of being covertly required to lose one's self, to accommodate other maladaptive, wounded, shut down, checked out parents, and behaviors.  Lisa's life story helps me shed light on why at 52 years of age, in 2017, I am still learning how to figure out what I need, want, and choose, and how to shift old sick internal patterns to better, step by step, find my "Road Back to Me!"  Her book helps me see, and make sense of why I got so shut down, traumatized, and wounded, facing, avoiding, and detangling from my own Narcissistic Mother wounding.  Her book helps me see why I have not yet published, or even read the 2 books I wrote, under the tutelage, of a Book Whisperer/Author who's birthday season it now is.

Astonishing!

I had already begun to explore, and gain healing and guidance from Lisa A. Romano's prolific outpouring of outstanding YouTube support videos, for Adult survivors of Narcissistic Abuse.  Today after completing her book, I went on-line, and discovered a set of 19 Guided Healing Meditations on YouTube, all with very specifically tailored foci.  That's when Lisa jumped from a human who struggled, transformed, awakened, progressed, and on her way, created countless classes, workshops, books, YouTube Videos, a Facebook Support Group, and more for the millions of us, who face our own flavor of these, all too familiar challenges, to Full Blown Angel Incarnate, in my view!

Her book eloquently draws you, the reader in, to experience her life, as if side by side, as she faces torments, ignorance, bullying, scapegoating, blind eyed "love," and worse, at the hands of her, friends, romantic, and life partners, her own self, and her parents, who, while nice, hard working people, likely, seemed to have missed the parenting 101 courses, most of humanity also missed out on, one way or the other.

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Lisa guides readers on an epic, "Alice in Wonderland," like journey, from seeming normalcy, down into the underbelly of the beast, that is the American Dysfunctional Family System.

She does an amazing job of expressing all the layers from, oblivious denial of reality, to her own personal flavors, of the bizarre adaptive behaviors we end up making to survive oddly preoccupied, unaware, conditionally loving, judging, fearing, controlling, shut down, closed off parents.

While my experiences were different, in may cases, I saw myself mirrored very precisely, in so many moments and details of her journey.

Knowing this confident, exuberant, expressive, successful, beautiful adult Wayshower, through her on-line presence, it is shocking to travel through her trials and travails in youth, as she experiences betrayal, emotional, and verbal abuse, as she was molded to, from early on.

She does a beautiful job of reminding you of just how oblivious to their abuse, the abusers can be.

She brings hope to many, as she somehow finds truth, help, support, validation, and guidance, on her way to become a Light Beacon of this and more, for so many of us.

Without giving away too many precious details of the reading experience, I simply recommend this book highly, to anyone who is, or has been human, and or raised by fallible, awkward, shutdown humans themselves!

This powerful gem of a guide book, is both a roadmap, a friend, a gift, a treasure, and a key, helping us find our way through so much madness, back to the light left always shining within.

It will fluff your feathers, warm your heart, and open doors on your journey, if you open your attention and simply allow it in.  This book comes wired with unconditional love, raw experience, profound wisdom, and a familiar sense of humor and triumph.

It's sort of like reading your own youthful raw journal, only it's published, her own, and offers some sort of resolution, and personal revolutions, that can be hard to find in one's own, unedited, unpublished journals.  Many of mine were so raw, I unfortunately judged them, tore them to pieces, and threw them away.  Lisa reminds us that we have access to those chronicles, whether saved, destroyed, ripped to shreds, discarded, or salvaged.  

Lisa is a living guide, who knows her terrain.  Her unquenchable curiosity, empathy, and drive rewards all who are drawn to don some flannel pajamas, and climb into the sleeping bag, by her side.  The party is growing bigger and brighter.  Jump in, and be sure to invite some of your friends! Misfits are welcome!

If you've ever wished, "if only I could change this parent, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, boss, government official, or spouse!" this book will cheer you onward, to a most empowering disillusionment, that helps you see, how irrelevant, impossible, and irreconcilable those pipe dreams truly are.  Instead you will laugh and cry your way back home, where you are seen, heard, felt, known, possible, probable, and yes, cherished, valued, valid, and lovable!

Map of the Narcissist

All that in a life story!

Get the book.  You won't be able to put it down, or read anything else till you finish!

That was my experience.

Much Thanks and Love on the road home, Lisa.

Looking forward to exploring my transformation through more of your tools, gifts, contributions, books and guidance, on the way to unleashing and opening my own, and of course to sharing you with friends and clients alike!

Grateful!

Namaste Dear One(s)!

Artist & Soul Artist Jen Klarfeld
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Truly, 
Jen Klarfeld
Artist and Soul Artist 
&
Lead Trailblazer at Trailblazing Transformation
Santa Fe, New Mexico

P.S. Hugs and praises.  What an awesome slumber party shared!

P.P.S.  Somewhere I read or heard you joking about how you must be an Alien, because you sure felt like it, in your family!  I am trained in Dolores Cannon's Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique.  If you ever prioritize listening to Dolores lecture on YouTube, "The Three Waves of Volunteers and the New Earth, or read her book, by the same title, or any of her 19 published books of hypnotherapy transcripts, you may find you feel a special affinity for our Galactic Heritage, as well as the sheer mastery and courage we Volunteers brought into this kooky, crazy, beautiful, terrible, war filled, karma based, quarantined, experimental, ghetto of a free will based planet!

P.P.P.S.  I am currently taking a giant leap of faith, involving art and soul, in Santa Fe.  I hope to soon carry some of your books side by side with those of my other favored teachers, including Dolores and Julia Cannon, and Vianna Stibal!

Graced and Grateful!  

- Jen

The True Book I am Here to Write is... Quite Simply a Book without End

Jen on my first day of kindergarten

Tom Bird

Smiling on my big day!

"IT IS I WHO AM MEANT TO WRITE BECAUSE..."

It is I who am meant to write because I am the one who sees with bold open eyes, sunsets and sunrises that crisscross between time, space, and lifetimes.

It is I, this one who is meant to write from these, my unique blessings of open heart, innocence, freedom and joy.  It is I, who am recognized for my vivid, infinite, playful imagination... writing, art, lovemaking... Those are avenues, yet it is I who am the pure energy beyond, placed here to relish life, nature, art, and humanity.  

My beloved teachers relish and nurture my infinite capacities for envisioning, receiving, seeing, imagining, and re-visioning realities.  Miss Schoeler, my second grade teacher honors my abilities, my imagination, and my seeing beyond the veils of all that is ordinary.

I visit the beach with my family, and connect with soul friends and loving families, friends we know beyond the present day.  I see sun set, yet it is really truly sunrise.  Which direction is West?  It changes in my mind.  Connects with life in ancient Egypt... connects with life beyond this space... life beyond this time.

We are more than this.  This sun reminds.  I do not have conscious words for this in time, yet the knowing remains, stretching out beyond time.  The feeling remains.  The sun encodes beyond time.  

"THE TRUE BOOK I AM HERE TO WRITE IS..." 

The true book I am here to write, channel, reveal, and intend to share and unleash out into our world is quite simply a book without end, one book which leads to another.

This book after its next book, is simple, pure, immediate and direct.  It is a book of the song, and immediate life of my life.  It is a book featuring me, encouraged by beloved teachers who create space for me.  It is a book of my observations, my experiences as this humble, watchful, playful student enrolled in the school of life.  This book tracks my experiences through youth, initiations, stages and phases of growing up, through love and life in human form.  It is not limited to a certain type of genre.  It is not the book of a typical, ordinary author, writer or scholar.  This book transcends time, space, lifetimes, adventures, experiences, dimensions, conceptions, preconceptions, labels, cultures, times and spaces.

This book is already written and includes art, love, community, purpose, as I love to learn in all my favorite art and soul expressions.

This book features the arc of my hero, me, coming into life, knowing, and feeling with purity of heart, soul, and mind, being a crypto teacher, mystic, lover and friend, well before my time.  This book features the beautiful unfolding and flowering of the divine, from a child and a student, to one who leads and teaches too, to one who humbly observes and shares.

"WHEN?"

When this book is due to crest into birth is now and ongoing, yet also divinely on track, as I gain support and containment from inside, outside and from all around.


This pure and direct writing came through me, after some very heart centering simple meditations, in a fabulous introductory, interactive evening workshop with Tom Bird, who leads workshops out of Sedona, in Santa Fe, and around the world.  His workshop was held at Body, the yoga and holistic community and restaurant in Santa Fe, on Thursday, January 23, 2014.  The class held in the dining room, was packed like sardines.  I was surprised, that most of the faces were not yet known to me.  I was surprised, that in a town known for its new age tendencies, many of the budding authors gathered there, were of incredibly eclectic interests and areas of specialization, from shamans, to chefs, to mystery writers, and historic novel authors, poets, and more. Tom is also known as the Book Whisperer, as he teaches people how to write their bestseller in a 3 day weekend.

I am grateful to Body for gifting movement classes to Afreeka Santa Fe, which I won, 2 years in a row, at Fiesta Fela, and to Azlan White, who forwarded me the info on Tom Bird and his workshops a year ago, or more.  I am grateful to Kamajou Tadfor, who posted the info on Tom Bird, on his facebook page, for me & others to benefit by.  I am grateful to my parents, who despite not always having it easy, secured a safe space where young minds and hearts were a great and valued priority, and my endless teachers, formal, and informal, spiritual and "every day."  And I am grateful to my New Love, Al Alvarez, whom I met in mid January, rekindling an ancient timeless soul flame, which shares and includes a foundation of this great love of writing, inspiration sharing, spiritual catalyzation, and many treasured soul gifts.  I felt the flames of our newly rediscovered love, warming my being, throughout this experience, in Santa Fe, New Mexico, and felt like we sat in the class together, even with 3,000 physical miles between us.  We are all treasures and gifts with more to offer, than what we may consciously know!  And of course Thank you directly to Tom Bird, for being so real, so inspiring, successful and accomplished, and for reminding us of how we are all uniquely encoded to give, gift and serve through the gifts of our soul's heart and art, and how this authentically reorders our lives, and keeps us on purpose.

To learn more visit www.TomBird.com where you can read and order his books, discover his touring and teaching schedule, and even take his classes, and join him in becoming a best selling author, in a weekend.  Tom Bird will return, and teach his class in early November 2014.  I plan to be there, front row and center.

Living life to the fullest is the foundation... receiving, loving, sharing, expressing, singing, dancing, writing and sharing it, are the gifts.  - Jen